Quite a lot of religious people of
any denomination choose to wear symbols of your faith, either permanently or
for special occasions – e.g. a hammer when you’re a Heathen, a cross when
you’re a Christian, etc.
For today’s post, I’d like to delve
a bit deeper into the reason of why people decide to wear such jewellery.
There’s also an interesting aspect of why people choose to have their faith’s
symbols tattooed onto their skin, but we’ll get there in my “T” post.
One of the reasons why I think
wearing religious jewellery is a nice idea is that it helps others of the same
faith to identify each-other – we see somebody also wearing a hammer and we
might have been lucky to meet another heathen (however, s/he could just be into
metal, but I’ll get there later).
Secondly, and this is quite an
ambivalent point, wearing these symbols gives away important information about
you. Just like with the way you dress, or you wear your hair, by wearing
religious jewellery you inform your surroundings about where you’d like to be
placed, i.e. in which box they should put you. Generally, people love
categorizing things and people in boxes, since it helps them to make sense of
the world around them (Pendry 2007: 114). For example, if you’re starting work in a lawyer’s
office today, you might infer that the nice, well-groomed lady in a suit is a
potential colleague, and that the lady in a normal dress who’s kneading her
tissue in her hand is a potential client. Thus, forming categories of the world
helps us to understand it and to react to other people. And if I can influence
this process for others to understand me better and to get a more accurate
picture of myself, so be it. Hence, I wear a hammer every so often, and I dress
mostly in black, jeans, leather and biker boots, cause I’d rather be seen as a
Helena Bonham Carter-esque rebel than as somebody who conforms to all of
society’s rules.
Helena Bonham Carter - this is the box I'd happily be put into
However – and I feel this is an
issue needing to be stressed – wearing religious symbols can backfire terribly.
Coming back to the situation when you meet this nice heathen fellow, you might
be disappointed to realize the only thing they know about Odin is what was in
that song by Manowar, and that they just donned the necklace because they found
it was cool or because it was pictured on an album cover they liked. The same
happens – and I believe far more often – with Celtic symbols. But then again,
usually you don’t go up to random people in the street and start talking about
the Goddess just because they are wearing a Celtic pendant. A more problematic
issue is when people see the symbol you’re wearing and automatically class you
as “evil,” “bad” or what-have-you and don’t bother to get to know you
personally. This is sad, but that wouldn’t stop me from wearing a hammer –
people like this would quite as easily find another reason why I don’t confirm
to their standards, and I have no intention of changing myself to confirm to
somebody else’s ideal of a human being.
On the other hand, wearing religious
jewellery can help educate people about our faith. Around the time the first
Thor movie was out, I went to a friend’s birthday party. Somebody saw my
necklace, inquired about it, and suddenly we had a very nice, very enlightening
discussion about paganism and what it means to the individual. I think that
explaining to this one man what paganism was doesn’t change the world, but at
least there will be one more individual who knows about us and that we don’t
eat little children. So if all of this can be achieved simply by wearing a
necklace, I’m all for it.
Can wearing a hammer pendant help people understand that Thor isn't like in the movies?
However, I feel there are places
where religion doesn’t really belong. In your free time, you can wear whatever
you like, but just as there are dress codes for some jobs (think of them
whatever you will; I don’t think most of them are necessary, apart from when
the health of patients is concerned) I think there are situations where
religion doesn’t have to play a role. In my workplace, for instance,
we’re all about football, but I wouldn’t expect anyone to turn up in the
morning wearing their team’s jersey, because ultimately, you come to the
workplace to work, do your job well, and not to proselytize.
I’m by no means suggesting that
religious discussions should be kept from the workplace – it’s only I feel
that, especially when you’re new in your position like myself at the moment –
non-committal subjects like football are safer and easier to talk about (you
may strongly identify with your team, but religion usually goes much deeper
than that). Thus, I’d suggest wearing smaller, less obtrusive versions of your
chosen symbols. For example, I have this huge bronze hammer pendant, which is
really very obviously pagan from a mile away; since I feel this is a bit much
for work, I’m looking for a smaller, silver version at the moment.
Another thing that crossed my mind
is that sometimes, your symbol of choice can be quite easily mistaken for
something else. This happens quite often with pentacles, so be prepared that
people might think you’re either Jewish or a Satanist, and be prepared to give
a short, easy explanation why you’re neither and what your faith means for you.
people sometimes do mistake this Star of David for a pentacle, so be prepared to explain what your faith means
Finally, if you’re unsure about whether
your friends, relatives or colleagues would approve of you wearing a religious
symbol, you might also want to consider wearing jewellery that is meaningful to
you and your faith without openly stating it, so to speak (this might
especially be important for teens living with a family of another faith). For
instance, I’m wearing a braided leather bracelet that connects me to Odin – it
doesn’t say “Heathen” straight away, and I can wear it to work without people
commenting on my faith when I’m not ready or willing to discuss it (as I said,
we’re all about football in the company, so I’d rather spend my break
discussing the latest match instead of religion). Others might have a special
set of earrings in the colour associated with their deity, or an item they
bought while on holiday in their chosen deity’s country. I’ve also heard of
objects blessed for specific purposes, let’s say being able to stay calm when
dealing with customers, and worn to work. Those don’t have to look magical at
all, but knowing they’re there might give you that push to get through the day
without shouting at anyone.
So what do you do? Do you wear a
symbol of your faith at all? Would others be able to recognize it? I’m assuming
that, at least in Germany, if somebody wore a valknut most people would rather
think they were supporting the German Football Association than that they are a
devotee to Odin.
Or do you think that advertising a
minority faith is too risky in your environment? I’m very interested to hear
different opinions!
Blessed be,
Harzgeist
Sources:
Pendry, Louise. 2007. „Soziale Kognition.“ In: Stroebe, W., Hewstone, M., Jonas, K. (Hrgs.): Sozialpsychologie. 5. Aufl. Heidelberg: Springer, 111-145. [German edition]
Pendry, Louise. 2007. „Soziale Kognition.“ In: Stroebe, W., Hewstone, M., Jonas, K. (Hrgs.): Sozialpsychologie. 5. Aufl. Heidelberg: Springer, 111-145. [German edition]
Manowar - Sons of Odin: http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=a8XIW_jUa-k
Pentacle: http://www.earthly-gems.co.uk/acatalog/pentacle-pendant-26110-1lge.gif
Thor's Hammer: http://www.jelldragon.com/images/sn_thors_hammer_necklace_1.jpg
Helena Bonham Carter: http://www.freewebs.com/thedemonbarberoffleetstreet/Helena02.jpg
Thor movie: http://vervemedia.org.uk/wp-content/uploads/2011/09/Manchesters-Finest_thor-movie-440x326.jpg
DFB (German Football Association) logo: http://upload.wikimedia.org/wikipedia/de/c/c0/DFB-Logo.svg